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【實錄】知己怎樣變情人?(I don't wanna be friends!)

作者:湛澄│2020-08-10 00:45:54│巴幣:8│人氣:394

首先,
跟任何人交往都有3個基礎因素:
1. 心態(對愛情是否渴望,是否相信愛情,有沒有足夠的行動力)
2. 狀態(行動時的情緒是否穩定)
3. 行動技巧(這可以看書外加使用實戰練習補救)
 
 
再說, 
朋友想要變情人,先得掌握這幾個重點:
 
1. 從揪團烤肉,變成開始嘗試單獨約會
 
2. 雙方的期望會改變,
 從完全坦誠,變成試著用神秘感去引發好奇心跟火花、化學作用
 
3. 千萬不要告白,尷尬與壓力往往會讓對方發卡;
 相反,要善用一直以來的交情與了解
 去感受對方是否也對自己有好感,然後再見機行事,各種曖昧暗示
  
 
然後,
重點來了--
莫彩曦姊妹 (Hailey) 是道地美國女生,
跟台灣非常有緣,每年來兩次,
她才21歲就嫁給她最好的朋友 Adam 了,
完美示範怎樣逐步走出 friend zone:
 
 
We had exactly the same sense of humor.
I thought there was no way I could get a girl as good as her.
But from my perspective, I thought he just didn't like me. He wasn't doing anything.
 
This is where the story gets good. 故事才剛要進入精彩的部份呢~
Then it all went down at this time two years ago. 然後兩年前的這個時候,故事就進入下一階段了。
 
Frate = friend date = 友會
My best friend Zach: "Sup."
Single people unite!
And he did not pick up on that hint...
"Ok it's late. Let's head home."
I stayed. I did it on purpose. 我故意的。
I got butterflies. 我心臟狂跳小鹿亂撞。
 
I felt like the relationship moved too fast, and I felt like I started falling in love with you too fast. And it kinda scared me.
I wanted to travel on my own and stuff. 我想要自己去旅行什麼的。
After dating Adam, I got a little scared of being tied down.
She's afraid that I would tie her down. 束縛;綁住;逼使某人明確表態(安置、成家、settle down)
[澄: She wanted to calm down and slow down a little bit.]
You can't be friends after that though. 都這樣子了,就不能再回去當朋友。
And Hailey said she'd rather talk in person. 然後彩曦說,這個用手機不好說。
I needed time to think through everything. You were part of my life, but I just was scared.
I never thought it's gonna be forever.
[澄: And this is when I teared up...]
 
Jennifer - If you were here
 
The day we broke up, I cried a lot. (Hailey did, too)
I couldn't handle the feeling of not having her by my side.
And I decided that I wanted to make up before she headed back home to Colorado. 跟她復合
I pulled her in close and kissed her.
I was so happy! I was so happy... (sobbing)
We only broke up for a week, and neither of us could take it.
It was meant to be! 緣份天註定。
I really don't like that piano room [澄: That's where they broke up].
In the week that we're apart, I realized I couldn't live without him in my life.
I couldn't date anyone else. Wouldn't want to. Couldn't. Not gonna happen. Nuh-uh.
 
Going from best friends to dating can be really awkward. But it was really meant to be!
從最好的朋友到走在一起,有時候很尷尬。但就真的是緣份囉!
For real, our love was built on the foundation of friendship.  Yeah this is the best!  That's key to happiness.
 
THRP = The Hailey Richards Project = 我們結婚了 (his full name is Adam Richards)
I got down on one knee and proposed.
"Don't marry the person you think you can live with. Marry the person you can't live without."
 
What are the odds of that! 好巧!
see them in person 親自見他們
 
--總之,
  女生要製造足夠的機會給對方示愛,
  男生也不要太自卑啦:
  若不是喜歡你的話,怎會跟你親近到這種程度?
我還是覺得
【異性之間的純友誼】真的是萬中僅一,
不是完全沒有,
不過,少得可憐。
就像「蓋棉被純聊天」一樣罕見。
 

 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AguAjNCx7I&t=2s
be about ready:
I'm so tired. I'M ABOUT READY to throw in the towel.
just yet:
Hang in there. Don't throw in the towel JUST YET!
 
 

To live in California, you need a phat salary. = well paid
fat→phat = 肥→月巴XDDD
thicc = fat in a good way
 
handle the traffic:
And I was from Colorado, so I couldn't quite HANDLE THE TRAFFIC.
 
 

 
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